The love motivation

First of all we must realizie we need God's help  Gal.2:20  we need his help we cannot love with God's unconditional love in our own power, we need his help john 15:5  paul said only through JesusChrist that we could live a rightous life, It's not doing it in our own strenght,But knowing that Jesus Christ lives in us by the holy spirit and that we obey him by faith. in John 13:5-8,12-17.Jesus said he gave us examples how to serve others as he serve us if we really want to love others like Jesus did then we need to pray and ask God to give us the attitute  of Christ toward others and ask him to show us how to serve others as he serve his followers. God is love and as children of God we should be able to love everyone because Jesus gave his life for all who accept him as lord and savior sometimes it's not easy not everyone is lovable but God loves them.